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[random944]

Sorry guys I have been a asshole for the last few mounths.

My fiance just left me out of the blue.

I will not be online anymore, and may not respond to this thread.

I am selling my Cetme and a few other guys, as part of getting rid of the thing I don't need in my life plan. I am going to try and make this as positive as I can and work on being a better person. I am selling most of my guns but will keep a few.

If anyone is intrested please call me directly. Just make me a reasonable offer. I will only ship to a FFL holder.

My number is 719-217-4012.

Thanks guys and I realy do wish you the best. You are agreat bunch of guys.

[drhall762]

Sorry to see you go. Hope all works out the way you want it to. I will pass the word on the CETME. Trying to build my first one so.....

Good luck,
Dave :sniper:

[jonboy20]

Dang...first the cops, now this.....good luck to you!

[IMBLITZVT]

Good Luck buddy. Hope everything works out for you.

[WildBillCody]

Wow, Good luck, you don't need a CETME to visit, all the best.

[k98k792]

Good luck brother!

[LorDiego]

just remember that everything evens out in the end, so whatever bad moment you are going through right now, will have to be made up by good times to follow.

Best of luck finding your karma!

[LostInTexas]

Hope everything works out for you. Please stop by from time to time and let us know how things are going. I hate to see anyone go!

[random944]

The person that left me was my life. All the things I bought where to fill the needs I had, all toward the goal of making myself happy. Now she is gone. And I see that the obsesions I have are just a temperary fix. Like a junkie doing what ever they can to get the next fix.

Im not happy with myself. As you guys have seen I hurt peoples feeling with no reguard.

I want to sell my cetme to one of you guys so I know it gets the care it needs. And so it will make one of you happy, as it did me. i think i just sold me AK47, and a few other guns. All of witch went to people that deserved them, and have done good to me in the past.

I will also be selling some wolf ammo 7.62x39 for 5 bucks a box. Its is what I paid for it.

This sounds crazy, but you guys helped me change toward being a better person. Rusty helps me when I call him and I just ASSUMED he would. AJ AK sent me free stuff for no reason, just to be nice. These people showed me stangers that will never meet can still be humans, not assholes. I hope I change for the better.

[random944]

just remember that everything evens out in the end, so whatever bad moment you are going through right now, will have to be made up by good times to follow.

Best of luck finding your karma!


I think this is the karma for the negitive life I have lived.

[Norton]

random sorry to see you having trouble, good luck and take care with whatever path you take.

[KnobCreek]

random, sorry to see you go as well, but we wish you the very best. Don't be a stranger and drop by once in a while.

[Enigma Nostra]

Hey mate, sorry to see ya go. Hopefully once you find what your looking for you will drop by and visit us once in a while.

As to your guns, got any left? I might have time to call tomorrow, but dont like calling people late at night so not going to tonight, and I have class all day tomorrow. So probably tuesday.

-E

[nevada]

Keep as positive an attitude as you can friend, things will get better. Check back if you need some friendly talk.

[wandering_ronin]

Hope everything works itself out Random. Take care.

[bataanboy]

Random, if you don't mind, I'll pray for you.

[g3shooter1]

Good Luck.

[Seattlefungus]

Sorry to see you going. Sometimes change is good and can help you move on. I hope you find a balance in your life and keep yourself active with your friends and family! They may not always understand, but they will be there and support you when you need it. As any of us here would and will.

I hope you all the best in your future path and keep in mind that bad things do happen to good people. There's no rhyme or reason for a lot of it.

Dave

[Cavalryman]

I hope I change for the better.

Man, you already have! No-one who hopes to be a good person can ever be a bad person. If you're crabby, obnoxious, or just plain asshole-y it doesn't mean you're a bad person...you're just a good person in training. You are getting there, bro. And the psychiatrist in me would suggest that maybe dumping your support group may not be the best idea in the world...

[jfowl31]

Random, if you don't mind, I'll pray for you.

+1 here... Im sorry to see you leave the forum Random. Feel free to stop in if you ever need a support group or anything. Im sure you know you are always welcome. Stay the good course, and things will work out in the end. Thats the lessons that have always been taught to me. We aren't expected to be perfect, but half of life is learning from and reacting to our own mistakes. I know that Ive got PLENTY of mistakes left in my life, and I hope I handle them with a mature attitude as I see you handling them with now.

Good luck and God speed,
Jordan

[omerta123]

im giong through the same shit as random right now, it sucks horrible, LORDIEGO that post actually made my day man, and even though its not to me, thanks

[jmikey]

"And this too shall pass". These may only be the first steps on the path to something better. Take what you like about yourself and use it! Take what you don't like about yourself and lose it! Day by day it will get better!

[Otis61]

This may sound silly or stupid, but Jesus loves us so much, and he wants us to be good to other people. I, also have not exactly been a model humanbeing. So through the knowedge, and acceptance of that love it's given me permission to forgive myself. And that has been what it's taken for me to move forword in my life in a healthy way. If it'll work for me then it'll work for other people too.

[SteelCore]

Uh, been there done that, last year. Wife of 17yrs flipped the fook out, clinically...left me and a daughter of 3..(well 4 now) ....it can take a while to heal, but it can be done.

Stand fast, man! You'll be fine. Take care...

[random944]

I just see a buetiful begining the ended just when it started. me and her talked today, just for a few. She said she needs to learn to love herself and needs time to do so. She said she plans on coming back. But I don't think she will. She also said she wants to be with me, but thats the problem, and she need to learn to be able to live with out me. I don't understand. I guess I can't. Don't pay for me, pray for us guys. This is one of the ones that was ment to be. I hope it ends that way.

[Enigma Nostra]

Good luck brother. My advice, stay friends as long as you can, but dont destroy yourself for her. If she truly loves you, she wont want or ask for that. Be willing to give without expecting to recieve, but admit if she (or anyone) is taking advantage of you. Its rough to admit to yourself sometimes, and I hope you never need to. But I hope if the day comes, that you are strong enough to do so. Best of luck mate, feel free to call any time.

(615) 907-1739

-E

[SteelCore]

If you 2 can work it out, then good. if not, be glad you still have yourself, and no paper between you... In my situation, I was in danger of losing my identity, the things that make me who I am. I was in denial for prolly 5yrs, and that wears on you. My ex was bipolar.

My advice--don't give up things for the wrong reason--be it friends, hobbies, family firearms, etc.

Feel free to come by just to vent every now and then. Talking/typing beats isolation any day. don't be a stranger.

[Longhorn789]

The person that left me was my life.

Man, I know you're hurting...I've been there..

Think for a second about what you said right here in the above quote...

To be idolized like that is a lot of pressure for her. Women weren't designed to be worshiped. (Eph.5:1-33)

Just food for thought. You can take it or leave it.....but the answer is to focus on and pray for a reconciliation with your relationship with the Lord FIRST. THEN, He will align your life with the correct woman to form "a cord of three strands which is not easily broken" (Ecc.4:12)

I'm not pushing anything on you. Keep doing what you're doing if it's working out for you. However, feel free to contact me if you want to try another way for the heck of it. My marriage was almost over at one point. Divorce papers filed and everything. Both of us were done. We have a wonderful fruitful marriage now. We've been blessed far beyond anything I could imagine. There is another way............and the best thing to do when you find yourself at the bottom of a hole in your life....is to stop digging.

Take care man! I know it's the pits..We'll pray for you tonight just as soon as I post this post and get off the computer. Holler at me anytime amigo..

[RandyCOG3]

And the psychiatrist in me would suggest that maybe dumping your support group may not be the best idea in the world...

+1 to that; don't get rid of your computer, Bro... check in,
once in a while.
Best of luck to ya; hope it all works out in the end...

Randy

[random944]

me and her are making progress. Me and her will "reevealuate the situation" in 75 days. From what me and my buddy got from talking to her, is she is doing this to see if she was ready to spend the rest of her life with me. Never know it might work out for the better. Tme will tell

the fourm and this bunch of guys is the greatest I have ever know. I planned on leaving the board for ever. And getting out of shoot for the rest of my life. you guy have changed my mind. I will not post as much or read as much but I will stay around. People have called and offered me a job and a place to stay out of state if I needed to get away. Hell they dont even know me. this is the kinda of people you guys are. If everyone in American was modeled after you people we wouldn't have ANY problems. I am truly blown away. I didn't put my number up to ASK for help, I did it to just sell my rifle with out haveing to check back online.

Thanks you guys. I hope this one has a happy ending.

[Allwater]

My wife (of 11 wonderful years + two kids) kinda "freaked-out" just before we got into that "no turning back" serious phase. I gave her some space, and used that time to make sure I was ready too. Hang on Bro, everything will be OK - It's funny, we laugh about it now, but at the time - whew - I was not fun at all...

Keep your chin up!

Sean

[random944]

she told me, that she needs some time to grow up, figure out a bit in her life, and to learn to be alone before she can truly love anyone. She also told me she has no idea how long this will take and she doesn't know if she is ever coming back.

[SteelCore]

for 75 days, you might consider puting the 'you/her' relationship out of your mind, and see what you think about the independent you, too.

If you guys can be independent, then together be inter-dependent (and not co-dependent), then that is a healthy thing.

(I know what I'm looking for in a next relationship, and that is a lady with no 'need*' for a man, a good id/ego balance, confient, loves herself NOW, etc)

* By need I mean dependence.

After her being away for nearly 10 months, I'm really digging it. I'm getting back to my old self. :)

Sorry, a little OT about me there.

[Longhorn789]

she told me, that she needs some time to grow up, figure out a bit in her life, and to learn to be alone before she can truly love anyone. She also told me she has no idea how long this will take and she doesn't know if she is ever coming back.

Random,

I'm sorry to hear that man.....but here's the good news: She's speaking to you....and she's telling you how she feels. Muy importante!! Many guys in your spot don't have that.

It stinks....but this is a juncture where every single bit of instinct as a man, and training as a man in this society goes out the window. We're built and trained to be aggressors, but in these situations, the best thing you can do is let her work things out in her own way...and leave her alone...

You can't shame, entice, blame, attract or force her back.

HOWEVER, you CAN honor her though!

You honor her wishes by giving her her space and not calling, emailing, or otherwise contacting her. THIS silence will speak for itself and show you as the honorable man that you are. This show of respect makes you attractive to her, and will work towards reconcilliation of the relationship.

That's what I did....and my wife started calling me for weird things....then coming around for weird reasons.....then attending a marriage reconcilliation support group with me....then the Lord reconcilled our marriage. That was several years ago. Everything worked out..

Not all relationships are reconcilled, and God only knows why. However, if you seek the Lord and are faithful, he will hear your prayers!

Don't worry, she's not going to all of a sudden FORGET about your relationship. In fact, FAR more of a womans brain is devoted to this sort of thought process than a mans. She probably thinks about it on and off all day. Wait for HER to contact YOU.......and by all means.....talk nice to her. No arguing. There's no point to it..

Take care amigo. Hang in there. Spend some time praying about it. Focus on yourself and what changes may be healthy in your life.

We're all rooting for you bro ! ! !

[jettag]

Salud,
To all for being there,
For letting someone go,
The ear you lend may save a friend,
Learn, Live, Grow.

My wife split my lip last night and I deserved it...but she really F#*&$" up her hand too and for that I feel terrible...far worse than the blood that spilled.

After the meltdown I was on my usual tirade about Wisconsin politics. My guns must have overheard us and got scared because I went downstairs and found Chopo and the handguns hiding under the stairs all locked up!

BE SAFE ALL!!

[tomoshenko]

she told me, that she needs some time to grow up, figure out a bit in her life, and to learn to be alone before she can truly love anyone. She also told me she has no idea how long this will take and she doesn't know if she is ever coming back.
Hey Random944,

She might have been doing you the biggest favor you will ever receive.
You can do better, way better for yourself. Don't get down on yourself as you
will find you are going to be some woman's absolute PRIZE!
I've been where you are and time has turned what looked at first to be a
tragedy into an absolute gift.
You da man!

[Seattlefungus]

Everyone is a little different how they face life changes. Even positive changes have stressors connected to them. Making the commitment to share your life with someone can and is a major challenge. You can’t have two people go into something like that without bringing in a trunk load of expectations, challenges in communication, and adjustments for the personal habits and beliefs of the person you are in a relationship with. The strongest bond you can build is friendship with the person you want to spend your life with. The next would be flexibility, in all things. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Does, or will it matter tomorrow, next week, next year who was “right” or “won” an argument. Lastly, we think we all speak the same language, English, yet we find ourselves in disagreement in what was said, or meant by what was said. At some point, they are just looking for an ear, not an answer or solution to a problem, at others, they are looking for suggestions for dealing with things. Only practice and experience will help to know the difference. I have found that men like to be solution providers so we jump in with answers for problems. Turns out, that wasn’t what they were looking for, they just wanted a sympathic ear. Suddenly you get accused of not listening, or not understanding. Sometimes it’s better to sagely nod you head and say something like, “Man that’s tough, what do you think you should do?” Avoids the image of “Controlling”. The whole thing takes a lot of work and a lot of time and emotion. It can and does work… And I hope it works for you Random. Best of luck and hope to see you on the boards!!

[DaCapster]

My wife of 10 years went toodle on me......Yes I was bummed to say the least...been 5 years now and we are the best of friends. Kids help!
If you love her set her free, If she don't come back write her off~But don't give her 5 years :)

[bullseye]

Random, let me tell you a story. Years ago I met a girl that I thought I loved. After a while she tells me that she is pregnent. I get all happy and am thinking cool and that I'll step up and marry her and do the right thing. She tells me that she wants an abortion. After making sure that was what she really wanted, I paid for it. The next day she calls me and tells me she doesn't want to see me anymore or talk to me either anymore. I was devastated! I thought I had done everything right and I got shit on in a big way. I tried to talk to her and she told me she wanted nothing more to do with me again. I took the next couple of years avoiding women altogether and hunted and fished all the time. One day taking a guy home from work I met a friend of his wife's and talked with her for a bit and shortly after we got married. We have been married for almost 12 years now and I couldn't be happier. I know how you feel, believe me. It sucks big time! Maybe she will come back and maybe she won't, time will tell. But hang in there and make the most out of life and when the time is right life will fix you up good for all the BS you had to put up with.

[jettag]

DaCapsters got a great point and I sing the praises of my son who interceeded durring our last 'bout'. He's 5 and HE took control of the situation MAKING us both sit down together and evaluate our actions! How can the little dude be so wise and so loving, I guess we done something right.

Good luck & keep in touch...and a toast to you all for the sincerity of this thread. :beer: